Frequently Asked Questions
Dragonfly's Den Frequently Asked Questions
answered by Mistress Dragonfly
I need total discretion, how do you handle this?
What are the limits sexually in a session?
How much is a session?
Where do you live?
What are your hours?
How much notice do you need?
How do I ensure my session time is booked?
If I don’t like what you are doing how do I know you will stop?
How long have you been a dominant?
Have you ever subbed?
Do you do couples?
Can I get two dommes or a domme and a sub in a session?
Are you really sadistic and evil?
I have this fantasy of a teacher/naughty student scenario do you do that?
I want to cross dress do you have clothes for me to do that?
Do you have parties and workshops?
I need total discretion, how do you handle this?
Client sessions are completely private. All staff members sign an agreement to keep all personal and private information about clients confidential. In addition, for those who need it, it can be arranged that only Mistress Dragonfly knows who you are. Inform us ahead of time of your needs and it will be arranged. Also, our driveway is private and fairly secluded.
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What are the limits sexually in a session?
Dragonfly’s Den is a legal business and follows British Columbia and Canadian sexuality laws. All sessions with any professional dominant or submissive are strictly non-sexual. This means no oral, anal or genital flesh to flesh contact and no manual manipulation to orgasm. If you need more detailed information please contact the dungeon directly by phone to discuss this.
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How much is a session?
Please see Session Costs under the Services tab.
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Where do you live?
Now that is a very naughty question and none of your business - until you book a session. Careful now, some questions are a punishable offense at Dragonfly’s Den.
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What are your hours?
Dungeon hours are 10 am to 2 am.
Phone hours are 12pm to 12am.
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How much notice do you need?
A minimum of a days notice is needed to book a session. But the more advanced notice you can give the better to ensure a session and the happier I will be. It’s good idea to keep the Mistress happy!
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How do I ensure my session time is booked?
The best way to guarantee your session time is by using our online deposit system. Making this $50 CAN deposit online ensures your session time is locked in and also reduces your session cost by $20. Without making this deposit your session time may be bumped.
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If I don’t like what you are doing how do I know you will stop?
Safe words are always in place for every session. I like to use the words red, yellow, and green. Green means this is great go, go. Yellow means I like it but its making me nervous so proceed with caution. Red means stop what you are doing now. All sessions at Dragonfly’s Den are consensual. If you call red the activity stops immediately. Consent is a cornerstone of BDSM and safe words are always respected. We want repeat clients, that means we want to build mutual trust and respect; keeping you happy so that you feel safe, satisfied and come back.
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How long have you been a dominant?
I have been a professional dominant since 1999.
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Have you ever subbed?
Yes I have. I started in BDSM in 1992 as a submissive and spent 6 years on the receiving end of the whip, literally. I know what it feels like to receive, and THAT is what makes me the dominant I am. I have been where I will take you and know exactly how it feels.
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Do you do couples?
Absolutely, I adore couple sessions. Whether it is a submissive couple or a dominant/submissive where I and the dominant half double team the sub. Both are really fun for me.
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Can I get two dommes or a domme and a sub in a session?
Yes of course. Advanced notice is needed to arrange this, at least a week.
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Are you really sadistic and evil?
Now who have you been talking to?
Yes I can be but only for those who seek a sadistic and evil Mistress. I do enjoy letting the sadist loose in me when I get the chance, but I play to the level of the submissive and respect limits.
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I have this fantasy of a teacher/naughty student scenario do you do that?
Of course, this will give us a chance to use the schoolroom. "Miss Dragonfly" is a very strict teacher so watch your language and your tone or it could be six of the best with the cane for some naughty bare bottom. There are many other role play scenarios we can do and I will dress accordingly.
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I want to cross dress do you have clothes for me to do that?
Dragonfly’s Den has some clothes, shoes and costumes for clients depending on your size and preference. Evening gowns, schoolgirl outfits, sexy lingerie etc. If you call ahead and state your desires I can tell you whether or not that outfit is available.
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Do you have parties and workshops?
Yes. We have regular parties for both non-members and members. Non-members pay $15 for parties, members pay less.
Workshops are a specialty at Dragonfly's Den. Our goal is to provide a broad range of BDSM workshops to both members and non-members. Most workshops are $25 for non-members and less for members. These workshops help our BDSM community grow and become more skilled and creative. Check out Dragonfly's Den calendar to see our upcoming events.
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