Courses held at the Dragonfly's Den

The staff of the Dragonfly's Den have several decades worth of BDSM experience under their leather. We are very excited to be able to put all that sexy, juicy, fetish ladened know-how into two very unique courses for the Vancouver area.


Mastery - the path of the Dominant

To truly provide the depth of precision, control and awareness required to bring another to ecstasy through pleasure and pain, requires far more than a strong hand or a threatening voice.

Passion, heart and a solid sense of self gained through experience and wisdom are cornerstones of the artful ways of the Dominant.

This course will introduce you to the technical skills of the trade, yet more importantly, to the subtle nuances and forms of control that one must tap into before s/he can truly be called a Master/Mistress. If you simply want to slap somebody around, order him or her to be your slave and get you off, this is not the course for you.

A true Dominant is actually at the service of the submissive. It is only through skill of body, mind and spirit that one may master the mystery that is responsible for the searing bliss of both the dominant and the submissive.

If this is the path you desire, then do email us for details.

The true art of submission is not the release of control. Pure submission is like riding a perfect wave. This requires an attention and a rigor to the power and how it is unfolding. One false shift and the sweet ride can be terribly over.

The responsibility of the submissive is to correctly yearn for the power that is desired. If exact and pure, the yearning is actually a catalyst that calls the dominant to his/her highest ability, and creates the heat for your eventual pleasure. Anything less than this, and your satisfaction becomes as cheap as a hand-job in an elevator.

This course will teach you how to suffer the pain, endure the ritual, and release into the eventual bliss of the command. You will learn how to use your body to take it and give it. You will learn how your mind opens the doors to endless worlds of experience. You will feel the depth of your spirit and know that your truest freedom is found in kneeling to authentic power.

If this is the path you desire, then do email us for details.