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You are my erotic soulmate, you saw the depths of me and the pain of me and all the bad and Loved me anyway, you have allowed me to trust in Love of a man again.

Last Thursday's whip class went really, really well! We all had fun learning throws and stances and the different types of whips. We also got to watch someone being whipped! Thanks to the stunt bottom who allowed us to watch her reactions and view the lovely marks inflicted!

Gord did a great job and he makes wonderful toys, restraints and implements check out ...
www.Bound2Please.com
for more information on his creations!

Thank you Gord for being such an excellent and patient teacher I know one lovely blond is thoroughly hooked on whipping!

Well it's, once again been forever since I blogged... Thank the spanking God's I am not a bottom or I am sure I wouldn't be able to sit!

Things have been busy at Dragonfly's Den with classes, workshops, parties, coaching and sessions! Dragonfly's Den is constantly growing and changing, it's such a work in progress, the only thing that stays the same is change! The balance that is life is constantly changing! Ups and downs are a part of life you cannot have one without the other, sometimes its hard to accept this!

One of my favourite things about the fetish world has always been its emphasis on sexy and unusual fashion. Latex, leather, lingerie, whatever - the right outfit can enhance any kinky encounter, and the BDSM community seems to know this very well.

I've had a "thing" for lingerie and sexy clothing since I was old enough to shop. I remember looking at myself in the mirror wearing my first training bra, white and lacy with little bows, and marvelling at how cute it looked and wishing I could wear it with jeans to school like a normal top!

I was hoping to start out this blog with something a bit more positive and cheerful, but all I have to say right now is - what a horrible past few weeks I've been having. I got sacked from my part-time day job as a chocolatier's assistant olast Friday, felt so sick that I had to cancel a photoshoot on Saturday, and barely left the house during the following days. I even went for 3 days without having an orgasm, practically a record for me.

As the last G-spot workshop was cancelled due to snow, it's on again at the Love Nest this sunday, Feb10th at 6:30

THE VALUE OF ONE'S OWN SPACE

for the last four years I have been living in a funky old building in the West end with a room mate. There are certain things one gives up with a room mate and now I don't have to anymore.

I recently attended the annual Taboo show in Vancouver with the other staff of the dungeon, and was astounded to see so many people taking an interest in the BDSM lifestyle. It was my first public appearance and I was lucky to have the support of my friends who showed up to be there with me. I also had the privilege of working with Silkdude, who was especially engaging with the people viewing our show. He was as always, polite and obedient and followed me on his leash to wherever I wished to take him.

I had a small but informative get together on friday night to try and brainstorm a series of courses designed to help people learn about BDSM and where they fit into it.

In addition to my work at the Den I also stunt cunt for Jennifer of Libido Events. A particular workshop I help with often is Finding & Stimulating the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation.

The latest one is being presented at the Love Nest in Metrotown. More info can be found at http://www.libidoevents.com

Jennifer, like Mistress Dragonfly, if a major influence on the sub I am today and she has an energy that's hard not to get caught up in. She treats the subject with respect but still finds the humour in it.

What is it about playing with someone new - virtual or real life. It is new, I am scared, I am unsure, and I want to badly to please them. I want to be on my best behavior and show them just how good I can be for them.

I am a webcam girl professionally, so when a dominant man in my private life (whom I have a huge crush on) asked me to meet him for our first session I was filled with all those butterflies I have not felt In a long time.

I am still high from our session last night, and will write about it when I feel I can adequately share all the wonderful and mouth watering moments.